My reason why I wanted to start helping other people find their path they once had in life is because we get so caught up in taking care of everyone else that we lose sight of our own goals.
Like me, many of you may feel selfish for wanting something for yourself, especially if you have kids. I don’t yet, but it can translate into any area of your life that you focus all of your attention on. Energy flows where your attention goes.
For me, it was work. I suffered the deepest heartbreak 10 years ago and it set me on a long path of just surviving and I lost my focus. Nothing mattered anymore, but I did have a job to go to and poured myself into that. From there, I got promotion after promotion and it started to feel good having that praise. I got caught up in helping them grow the business until I blinked and 10 years went by! (I’m am actor and that job was supposed to be temporary, I’m close to my 16 yr anniversary this year.)
Each year at the company Christmas party, they would make announcements of wonderful things happening to various employees (baby, marriage, engagement, buying a house, etc.) Year after year, I noticed I got quietly upset that I never had anything “grand” to celebrate. I was in the same spot and my life wasn’t advancing forward. I was happy for them, but sad for myself. I finally realized why I was sad...I had lost focus of what I really wanted. Now, with this new perspective and a little manifesting, amazing things have been literally propelling me forward.
But it was that time of being brutally honest with myself of what I was feeling that gave me the courage of bringing my focus back to my dreams. Mine. Without the shame or guilt. It’s a work in progress like everything else and I’m looking forward to this continued journey and having you along with me!
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